Lack of sexual desire or anafrodisia

The name already says, the anafrodisia is decreased or lack of sexual desire. That for many people it is inconceivable since it is a source of pleasure, for some it is a nightmare because they don't know how to solve it. It is estimated that one in ten women suffer this sexual dysfunction, and bounce your partner is indeed one of the main reasons why women attend sexologist. But what has cure, there is some treatment?.

Depends on the type of anafrodisia, can that person has always been a profile low sexual desire, or may have been declining over time, or there may be a lack of desire with the couple but not others, or directly may not be any desire, i.e. nor with the couple or anyone else, simply not is passed by the head the idea of sexual intercourse and even trafficking avoid with excuses of all kinds.

Although most cases are women that pass through this situation, must be made clear that anafrodisia or lack of sexual desire is not a problem that only affects women, also men may suffer it.The causes can be varied: disorders, hormonal side effects of certain drugs, the lack of rest anxiety, depression, stress, monotony, emotional problems, dissatisfaction with their own physical or like this has changed with the passage of the years, fear rejection, etc.

Furthermore, unlike what one might think, is not a unique problem of married couples or take lot of time together, there is not even a specific age, can occur you both young and less young people, although generally if giving women between 30 and 60 years.

The consequences are quite obvious if the problem takes time, sometimes some couples leads them to a cooling of the relationships, tensions and discussions, as well as infidelity and even rupture.

No single treatment, or a miracle drug, depending on the case can make missing couple or individual therapy perhaps some hormonal treatment for lack of estrogen or testosterone, and sometimes simply something sexual education and greater communication.

In summary, the lack of sexual desire is fairly common, especially in women of a certain age.He is considered a sexual dysfunction and to obtain treatment best thing is to go to a specialist, nothing frustrate or try to self-medicate.A specialist must analyze our case to try to determine whether physical or psychological reasons, and therefore recommend us a treatment which will probably help us to overcome the slump and recovering sexual appetite.

If you want to try some basic solutions before you go to a specialist:

Talk to your partner, that flow of feelings and that each explain what he feels and what he wants or necesita.prueba to avoid sexual routine, i.e., do not do it always in the same position or the same place.Looking for a good time to make the amor.Si have occasion test to do some getaway weekend or even a night in a hotel somewhere boutique - I recommend one with jacuzzi - .Experimenta with erotic toys and massage kit, new stimuli can certainly help not only to break the routine but to explore new placeres.Da rein to your romantic vein, test with erotic recipes to help stimulate the senses, and particularly tries to surprise your pareja.

Placebo in treating female sexual dysfunction

A placebo is a substance that lacks therapeutic action, but has some effect healing to the sick, if it receives it convinced that that substance has really such an action. The placebo used constantly in the world of medicine to demonstrate the effectiveness of medications for example or to find out whether the disorder suffered by a patient to psychological factors.

A new study published by Journal of Sexual Medicine reveals that women with a low level of arousal experienced clinically significant changes in symptoms after taking a placebo.Not something magical or casual, but more than proof that many sexual dysfunction problems are due to the lack of communication with the couple and self-confidence.

Andrea Bradford and Cindy Meston, doctors in psychology, analysed the behaviors and symptoms of half a hundred women who were selected at random from a clinical trial large scale for drug therapy to reduce low sexual arousal. Neither women nor the study doctors knew if they were taking the actual drug or a placebo.

The results showed that, after 12 weeks of treatment, the symptoms of 1 in 3 women had improved to a degree that most doctors would consider a significant change.Most of these improvements also seemed to occur during the first four weeks.

The most important indicator of change in symptoms, was an increase in the frequency of satisfactory sexual encounters during treatment.Many women even reported that they received more stimulation during sexual activity, while their partners were not given special instructions.

Possibly believe that women were more receptive to stimuli was that partners showed more interest or decide to try new things.The mere fact of participating in the study likely triggered a change of behaviour in intimate relationships.

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Masturbation and sexual fantasies

To perform a more complex life, increasingly are more things that separate us from the rest of the animal world, this makes that also in sexual matters we are increasingly rare or unnatural, for example in regards to masturbation, according to Dr. Leonard Shlain: many animals masturban, but none with the intensity and frequency of ejaculation in men, except where are captive.

This assertion is a little disturbing, though the most accepted theory is that humans are masturban more because you can fantasize. Some theories argue that in the history our species has masturbado with this frenzy, except in certain seasons where religious or moral pressures we forced to suppress us or be more palatable with sex.Moreover, some hypotheses claim that fantasy is a natural and healthy plug-in, and even a condition without which no disfrutaríamos for a fulfilling sex life.

It is clear that sexual fantasies facilitates us reaching frequent orgasms, erotic toys like or pornography, and certainly am not going to be me which opposes the masturbation or to sexual fantasies, but returning to the words of Dr. Shlain, one is thinking about how far not we hominids? voluntarily living in captivityDo you think of it a bit, life for the vast majority is routine and with little free time, this is not a kind of confinement?

Ever been studied here with other hominids, and researchers are always surprised by the little jokes zeal of these relatives, in fact has not been until have gotten them into solitary confinement that have shown an increased interest in self stimulation.

Also has civilized we changed our sexual habits?Are the right way or we should look at another way?

Cupid blog ' Poisoned Arrow, Marnia Robinson s arises if experts are not being quite objective, or whether you are relaxing assuming that current conditions are "natural conditions", i.e. should seek explanations to this hobby to masturbate us out of our current social structure, should maybe start from scratch and do not give that nature is to live in an environment saturated stimuli, whether substances or activities, some as "normal" as shopping or atiborrar calories in a fast food restaurant.

Actually, the problem is not only the masturbation or that us masturbemos too, the theme is a bit more complex and is related to happiness, i.e. how this road leads to happiness?According to some research the problem is that the more we encourage our brain, increasingly harder to please him, and this compels us to seek increasingly stronger, more intensive stimuli.

It would be healthier for our body to raise another way of life where we get a biochemist balance (and hence emotional)?Not give a rotation of 180 degrees to our lives, but making small changes, as for example sports, do activities with friends, strengthen contact with people and affective ties, as well as a bit of daily meditation are surprisingly effective as anti-stress mood and as State regulators.

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